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writes: This boy had been my friends' friend for a few months and i would always see him around. But after an event where he was one of my friend's dates, he just started being around all the time. he would im, text, call all the time to go have lunch, to study together..and i never noticed anything..i was just happy we were becoming such good friends. but i found out he liked me through one of my girlfriends, and me and this boy started hanging out as more than friends for a few times. and of course, i started to like him a lot..which is different for me because i've never had anything like this with someone i considered such a good friend. but then for the last week of school, and since summer has started, we stopped being so close.. he won't call to talk or anything. this is the first time i've ever felt attached to anyone..what do i do??
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (24 May 2008):
 what pepper said is about right call him ask him if he fancies meeting up. talk to him. with friends you have a fine line, so if ure not sure he likes you more than friends tread carefully, so i would try and meet up with him and see how it goes see if he shows interest in you. let him know that you enjoy your friendship and since schools been over you missed that. thats my opinion aphex
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (24 May 2008):
 Hi Hunny
You could call him and ask if you could talk as you dont want to loose this friendship, He may have only wanted a friendship hunny and all the other stuff may have confused him and he doesnt no how to react or what to say..If you want to keep the friendship then he has to no there is no pressure.. Letting him no that you miss and care about him as a friend and then hopefully sitting and talking may sort this out...But if you do want more then be prepared for him to be confused as he may not and may be very fearfull of hurting you hunny..I hope this makes sence sweetheart TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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