This is really creepy - my boyfriend and his friends are following me.

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi-I just want some opinions on a creepy situation-I have this boyfreind I've known for about 4 years,I don't see him very often and I've heard him talking on the phone to other women-baisically,he is definately seeing other people,I've known for ages and am not looking at the relationship as a long term option-I'm just lonely and still a bit attached to him,thats all-he was there for me in the past-I'll leave him eventually,baisically I was always scared of looking over keen and worried he'd leave me before I was ready,recently I was going through some problems and I still needed him then we had this fight,he beat me up but as I am not living with him or anything ,it was a one off and I thought I still needed him,I forgave him this time,but he said stuff that night that made me kinda jumpy-he said he knew every move I make-so,previously being the type of person who walks around daydreaming and crashing into lampposts,I started being more vigilant when I went out at night on my own.It was then I started to notice a group of people who seemed to be everywhere I was-then one night I saw my boyfreind with them-he blanked me then denied it was him when I asked him over the phone-so of course ,this made me even more alert and when I noticed what looked like the same two cars continuously driving past me,I made a note of the registrations and sure enough it was-that was a few monthes ago now and him and his freinds have been following me ever since-I am aware this sounds far fetched but I would appretiate your advice-why do you think he's doing it?

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