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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok so there is this boy I like and he has a girlfriend, but she is one of my best friends. I didn't realize I had feelings for him for quite some time, and he is really cute but i'm not sure if he even likes me as a friend...but...idk! He is sooo cute but he wouldn't give someone like me the time of day. I think I love him. But my best friend dosen't know. What should I do? Help me!
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reader, molly4 +, writes (15 May 2009):
Unfortunately, he is taken, so there really isn't anything you can do. You could tell your friend, but it may make the relationship very awkward. Just be generally friendly to him, make him see that you are a nice, cool girl and get to be his friend without being too forward, you don't want your friend thinking you are making a move on him! Then, if he and your friend break up there is a chance for you, or if not, you have another friend, and you can never have tooo many friends. I know how you feel, I like a guy who has a girlfriend but unfortunately there isn't really anything you can do that won't be putting friendships at stake. If I were you I would just generally get to know him and be his friend, and see where it goes from there.
xoxo
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