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*rosthetichearts
writes:Okay, here goes nothing.March 8th, 2008. I'm sitting on the computer bored as hell, when I get an e-mail from Facebook. This cute guy at my school added me, though I didn't know who he was. Turns out he added me because he found out we had something big in common - both hail from 4chan. Anyway, we talked over Facebook walls for a few months before I asked him for his MSN in June. We began chatting every day on MSN, and I knew I was beginning to fall for him. One day I saw him walking to class alone so I stopped him and we chatted for a minute. It ended with him giving me a hug. Later on MSN he said the rest of his day went better. I complimented him and he said "I'd compliment you back, but there's no way you don't already know how cute you are".Then he started commented one of his friend's pictures - a female - all the time. He called her hot, complimented her, etc. I felt horrible so I fessed up to him how I felt over MSN (it was summer at this point D:). No response. I asked him a few days later how he felt and he told me he wasn't leading me on when he told me before (I thought he was kidding though before), and he said he did like me - he was just "medically messed up" and didn't know if he could date at that point and didn't want to mess things up between us (he's on anti-depressants..)Then there was little communication. Then out of the blue, over a month later, he started talking to me on MSN again (for the record he stopped commenting the other girl's pictures after I told him how I felt). One morning, about a week ago, he said "I'll just say this, we're one step closer to winning the game". He also suggested we hang out. Then he stopped talking to me... again. He also randomly commented one of my FB pictures where my other friend was hitting on me, asking "hey what's goinngg onn in thisss threaddd"? Honestly, he confuses me. There's so much more I could type but it's already getting long. He also gave me several more hugs at school btw, he initiated them all. I don't know if he still likes me, and I don't know how to keep things alive... Bleh I'm horrible confused. Advice? Thanks 33
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reader, prosthetichearts +, writes (1 August 2008):
prosthetichearts is verified as being by the original poster of the question I should also mention that in summer school a few days ago (it finished the same day this happened), I was in the bathroom and there was this girl I recognized as one of his friends in there... I ignored her and when I turned around she was staring at me and I didn't know why. I don't know her, the only reason I know what she looks like is because she posted on his wall and I saw her picture. I've never even seen her around my school though I know she goes to it :x
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reader, prosthetichearts +, writes (1 August 2008):
prosthetichearts is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your response, it really helped :D!
Anyway yes, I did tell him. I said "...that actually, I like you". I was set to offline when I told him, but I didn't block him and was online the next day. Then like I said a few days later I messaged him on Facebook under the assumption he'd reject me, and I told him to do just that but he didn't... he told me instead that he liked me.
No, I wouldn't say he is. His last girlfriend apparently cheated on him too.
You do make his actions seem to make more sense, it's nice to have a guy's imput who is non-biased like my male friends. I def. want to talk to him but I'm so shy, haha. It took me an hour to hit the send button when I told him!
Thank's a lot once again, haha I really appreciate it! :D
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reader, xnickx  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 Hmm. You said you fessed up over MSN. First did you actually tell him you have feelings for him? Second how did he react? Initiating hugs is definately flirting, so he wants to get to know you better.Next is he a guy who typically gets girls easily? A lot of guys who don't get girls easily but are interested in a speciffic girl go online or to their friends for advice getting to know the girl better or how to ask her out. I know (i looked online) that one of the most common bits of advice is for the guy to play kind of hard to get where he'll talk to you alot one day/week and then not talk to you at all for a while and then sstart talking again. Also. Telling a girl that she made my day after hugging me is something i tell my girlfriend, or at least someone i really like. Maybe he was confused because your not biting on the hints he was dropping. Talk to him. Tell him how you feel (confused, maybe you'd like to hang out, stuff like that).Hope it helps. If you need more or want to tell me something else, just mail me!Good luck with this guy!
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