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writes: Ok, there is this guy who is a lil obbsessed with me but i have a boyfriend who i love verry much. This guy will do anything to break us up like lieing to me; saying he smokes and cheats on me and he says the same to my boyfriend but i really need him to stop because i think its tearing us apart. Please help me.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (2 December 2007):
I've been in the same situation. The guy that I'm with now, his supposed to be best friend kept trying to break us up. I told my bf that there was nothing going on between me and his best friend, and now we avoid his ex best friend altogether.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): Have you told your boyfriend what he's up to? I think that that would be a smart move to make.
You could also try talking to this guy who's abusing you. Tell him that he's really hurting your feelings.
If it gets worse you may have to tell someone you really trust, like your mum or dad, what is going on, and see if they can stop it. If its at school try telling a teacher?
Don't let him split you and your boyfriend up. Stick together - and I hope this all stops soon. You don't deserve to be treated like this.
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (2 December 2007):
Confront your bf about this matter. The both of you should talk and discuss how he is really making you both feel. Then confront the guy before he gets too over is head and can do something even worse. HE is trying to tear you both apart and he wont stop until his job is done. Prove him wrong. This is the time that you and your bf must come together and work against this obstacle. There are people who wil try to ruin the best of us. It wont happen unless you let your guard down and let it happen. Good luck!
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