A
female
age
30-35,
*keez
writes: Hey to everyone who reads and replies to this.To make everything short, I have liked this one guy for about 6 months but nothing has come of it at all, just sex one time and im coming to terms he was a waste of breath. About 4-5 months ago I was 'dating' and having 'casual sex' for about 1 month with a guy I didnt like anything more than just physically (i know shallow)anyways i saw him recently and we hit it off again but i told him i wasnt interested in doing that 'causual sex' again. He repects that and is still interested in dating and finding out more about me, which im flattered by.But im still hung up over this other guy and its stopping me perhaps finding someone who genuinly likes me. Its fustrating and i dont know if i should get to know this guy more. Ill feel absolutely dreadful if I hurt him becuase I cant get over this other guy. So my question is, should i try dating this guy, or wait and concentrate on moving on from this other hopeless case?Thanksss Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, GTO +, writes (18 February 2011):
I think you should definetly go for it with this new guy. You might be very surprised :)
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (18 February 2011):
Date this guy it might be good for you. You need to accept that the other guy is not interested in you, it was only a one night stand for him and however hard it is you need to tell yourself he does not want you and you need to move on. Dating this other guy may actually make you feel better. It sounds like he is really interested in you and you may regret it if you let him go, so go for it, he may take your mind off this other guy and show you how it feels like to have someone truely care for you. Goodluck hunny.
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