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female
age
36-40,
*aniackru
writes:Hey there, I have been 'seeing' a guy for about 4 months now and it has been going quite well. We have taken it slow more so we have been friends but knowing we want to be more.Recently, (about a week ago) we met as usual grabbed a bite to eat however he seemed a little 'off' and cut the day short and I was a little taken aback as to why he did this. It seemed like he did not want to hang out with me. I had already invited him out to meet me and some friends the next day he had already said he would see as he had some things to take care of and he would text message me to let me know. He never did. That was the last I heard from him.I have waited four days but nothing so I took matters into my own hands and text messaged him. I don't regret this as we are 'friends' but do you think he is not into me anymore? He has previously told me he likes spending time with me and if things did not work out he still wanted me in his life. So I don't think he is the type to just ignore and abruptly end things he would notify me if he felt it wasnt working out. I am very confused.
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reader, VernieD +, writes (6 February 2012):
 Don't text or call him anymore. If he wants you in his life, he will be sure to call or text you. If he doesn't call or text, that answers your question. If he does, he still has some splaining to do.
In the meantime, feel free to see other people : )
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 February 2012):
 4 months in, you hardly know the type of guy he really is.
Maybe he has some sort of family emergency he's dealing with. Then again, I would think he would let you know what is going on.
OR
He's leading some sort of double life, that involves a wife and kids.
OR
Maybe he took the coward route and stopped seeing you because another girl has come into the picture. After all you guys are only seeing other, it's not a relationship..so technically he can easily move onto someone else.
Has he not texted you back?
I wouldn't text him back. He owes you a phone call with an explanation. If you never hear from again, then obviously whatever you two have is over.
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