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writes:I don't know what to do, I met this guy two weeks ago on a night out. It was probably one of the best nights I've had in a long time! It was because this guy made me feel like my life was out of a movie and treated me so well. The way he looked at me, kissed me, held me, talked to me just everything, made him so amazing more so than any other guy i've met!! He had all the qualities, from looks wise to personality that I've always wanted in a guy. And funny thing is, he said he found it hard to believe that I was interested in him, when really it was the other way around. Well I forgot to get his number, or someway to contact him because I rushed off, so yeah he must of been left thinking I wasn't actually interested.Well since then I keep thinking about him and hoping i'll see him again! But chances are very slim since I live in a big city. I've tried moving on and accepting it since I can't do anything about it, but when I meet other guys I compare them to him and think I wont meet someone like that again, even all my friends who met him said the same! He was one of those rare guys that i've always hoped to meet and I really like him more than I expected! But I want to just get over it and carry on. I know i'm being silly, but I don't know how to move on and stop thinking about him and comparing him to all other guys!?
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (18 November 2011):
 Yep, them magical nights with prince charming on your arm, sure are wonderful. But, if you and him were serious, one of you would have gotten a telephone number. Sorry babes, just one of them things. You'll forget him in time when you meet somebody nice, but there is no harm saying you want to meet a guy with some of his qualities. Yes, we have special moments, but life isn't like a movie. He's probably a right bastard when you get him home. The guys your turning away are probably fantastic, and could treat you nice and special if only you'd let them. Dreams and magical nights are great, but don't waste your life dreaming about something that aint real.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2011): Perspective!It was one night. ANYONE can act amazing. ANYONE can do nice. Does not infer he IS amazing and nice or even good calibre to be a long term, dateworthy man.Even the Wisest of men and women have been fooled by a partner for 6 months to a year BEFORE someones true colours show. That whole, sheep in wools clothing.I say, just chalk it up to having a very great night and experience and put it on the shelf of, Oh What A Night memories.Totally okay to daydream, fantasize and hang unto such a beautiful moment in time but don't let it over rule or cloud your judgement from the now.;)
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