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female
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36-40,
*razyInLove170
writes:I met a wonderful guy about two months ago. The problem is is that he knows my daughters father, no they are not friends. They've hung out at the clubs a few times, but thats it. They know each other from another friend. Now I met him in a club and we talked on the phone that same night for about an hour. During our conversation was when we found out that he knew my childs' father. The next day he came over my house he cooked us dinner and yes he can cook, very well. What made me really fall for him was that he held my hand and said grace, threw out my food when I was finished eating, washed the dishes, cleaned my stove, and put up the left overs. WOW! We hung out for a few more days and then he stopped talking to me. I called him never returned my phone call, texted him, no answer. I seen again in the same club that we met and he never even looked at me. :( But he told me that I was the perfect girl for him and that I was all he needed. Can you tell me if I am crazy? Its been almost three months and we haven't spoke, and I think about him everyday, EVERYDAY. Apparently he doesn't want me, right? How and what can I do to get him out of mind. Plz tell me. I am going crazy or maybe I am just crazy in love with someone that isn't even thinking about me.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (20 February 2009):
 guys that age is only looking one thing. to get in your pants. Soooo of course he said and did all the right things. to get you hooked. and it it worked.
So. If you had sex with him..then he got what he wanted and moved on.
OR... he realize the effort is not worth it and he's moved on. Either way, he's not that great of a guy like you fantasize or he would be around still.
Let him go. I think you like him cause the challenge is there to make him fall for you. but he's already ignored you ..so he's not into you. let it go...move on and learn from it. Just tell yourself he's not all that...and he's not. YOU build him up to be all that.
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reader, lovelynightmare +, writes (20 February 2009):
 I wouldn't think so, especially with how easy we can keep in touch nowadays.Whenever you think of him, tell yourself that you'll find a guy with STAYING POWER and who isn't a COWARD.Some guys just love to toy with girls' emotions, sounds like he's one of themlovelynightmare
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