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writes: hi im 15. Would u say my boy mate fancies me cos if he sees me in the corridor he pokes me or bangs into me as a joke and smiles. hes the same age as me.And sometimes when i am sitting down eating my lunch he says to one of his mates "oh if u want any sexual advise then go to her" pointing at me and smiling so i can hear him. i just laugh cos its funny lol.do u think he fancies me or just messing about as mates?i haven't got a clue if someone fancies me, i'm just rubbish at reading signals like that lol... but what do u think?I have already asked this question but didnt get any answers to my question.Thanx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (16 September 2006):
It doesn't matter is he fancies you or not...why? He doesn't sound like he is ready for a relationship if the only way he can get your attention is to poke you or say things in front of his mates then he is lousy boyfriend material. You may find this funny at the moment (...because you fancy him) but other girls are going to react badly to being teased or poked. Perhaps you should have a word with him when he is alone and tell him to keep his hands and comments to himself. I had a few guys tease me in my teens and on reflection I knew they fancied me thinking about it years later. Glad I didn't waste my time or energy on them though - they were a waste of space really.
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reader, confussed jane +, writes (16 September 2006):
should next time he pokes you say do you fancy me or something.as people say hiting first sing of love i dont really see how but what somepeople think.
he mite no say he does in frount mates but mite say to you when alone yes i do or something like that
hun you will never no intill you ask because some guys wont they rather lassies make move to scared so posibally if you dont ask you will never no.
all the best xxx
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