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writes:theres this one boy at my school who has a huuge ego!! i jst feel like sayin to him to get over himself! but lots of people like him an i dnt know wat to do. hes so self centred. and makes everyone around him want to please him an to never let him down. he makes remarks about the way other people dress an makes comments on wat they look like. weather he thinks they are ugly or pretty or are fat or watever. im not one of his victims but i hate it wen he says all tht stuff to other ppl! havin said all tht he can be soo nice sometimes. its like all tht nastiness has jst dissappeared an u get this really nice person. but mos of the times hes a wee shit to other ppl. i wouldnt say he bullies ppl. jst makes thm feel as if they are not gd enough but he doesnt hav any victims which he always picks on. he jst says watevr he thinks to anybody tht passes him. please tell me wat to do. should i say somehing to him or let him do this??xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, PissyNovelist  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 Well... this is just one of those situations where ignoring him would be the best. Really, you can't change people who are as aroggent as that. He's a bully, Sweetie. That's all he is.
Go about your life, be proud of yourself. If he says anything to you, let it roll off your shoulders. It might get to you sometimes, but you just have to remember this;
He doesn't know you that well. Whatever he says to you can't have any effect on you, because whatever he says isn't true.
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