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writes:hi, me and this guy i no from school have met up twice to kiss and cuddle. he wanted more but i told him that i just wanted to mates wiv him and meet for kissing and stuff. he repsected me for telling him the truth. im not interested in a relationship with him but just lately ive been finding my self feeling jealous whn other girls talk to him. does this mean i want more than fun from him? i dont no how to feel bout him.... can anyone help??? xx
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reader, AskEve +, writes (21 February 2007):
 First of all I want to say Well Done there for having good morals. Kissing and cuddling is all fine and well but if he wanted to take things further so quickly and you weren't ready then he's not worth bothering about. Now he's flirting with other girls to see if he can get more from them. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Maybe in a few years time when he's more mature, he'll come to his senses and see what he's let go. In the meantime, you get on with your studies, map out a terrific career for yourself and soon you'll meet a nice guy who has respect for you and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
You did great! Hats off to you for having principles!
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (21 February 2007):
 You need to make your mind up about how you feel for him. I think it is a case of: Because he showed interest in you and because he likes you in that way, you want him all to your self. And this is understandable. You'd like to feel specail in his eyes even though you may not want to be in a relationship with him.
If I a guy showed interest in me I would honestly get a little bit jelous if I saw him talking to other girls even if I didn't fancy him. So I know how you must be feeling now. If I was in your situation, I would ask myself how I really feel for him and if I my answer is that I really do only want to be friends with him then I will try and push the jelousy feelings aside and replace them with indifference.
Whenever you feel feelings of jelousy just say to yourself 'I'm not bothered, I'm happy for him. I turned him down and now he's looking for a girl who will really like him, I'm glad to see that he is moving on.' Even if you don't feel that way about the whole situation that is what you should tell yourself and eventually you will start believing it. Feelings of jelousy won't get you anywhere.
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