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writes:Ok so my fiancé and I had takin a break for 3 weeks about a year ago. During that she was hanging out with a guy she had texted when we had broke up for couple days a few months prior. The text were about how they wanted to hook up. But when we got back together the second time she told me that all they did was make out in a bar. But she had seen his penis hard because she changed in front of him. ( Dont understand how if she only mad out with him in a bar why his penis was hard when he changed, shady) So me being jealous I asked if his penis was bigger than mine. She said that he had a longer penis but was way skinner. This really bothered me so we got to talking about the other guys she's been with. She told me there was a couple guy that had bigger penis than me.( my penis isnt the smallest one in the world being about 7in and good girth). So me thinking she's had to of had about a 10in penis in her one being a one night stand and the other being a sex buddy for about 6months. However she says I'm the best shes ever had. I don't see how a much smaller penis could feel the best to her. When we have sex she says she orgasms in the first few minutes and then drys up. I feel like it's an excuse. And lately I have not been able to go because all I can think about is the much lager penis going in her. This problem is driving me crazy and she gets mad now when I try to talk to her about it. I know she loves me with all her hart and I feel like she just tells me I'm the best to make me feel good. This is driving me mad!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2012): "Why does she hang with him?"Because he talks nice to her, makes her feel good about herself, and helps her forget about the problems you and she are having.Not, and make sure you get this clearly, it is not because his penis is better, bigger, prettier, etc. Unless she is a really fucked up woman, and there are those out there.As far as penis size, it has a lot to do with the ability to impregnate farm animals. So, unless your fiancee is a horse, a cow, a large pig, or a zoo animal, then you are good to go as you should be large enough for the sheep, goats, and well you are just to big for the cats, dogs and chickens so leave them alone."what is it with men and penis size?"Well, to respond to "So_Very_Confused", there are two issues with men and penis size.First is the women, and the issue is that women, some women, actually a lot of women, from time to time will make a big deal over it and gush to their gf's about the huge cock that they had, and they all laugh and giggle and act like it was the best thing in the world, even if it wasn't.Their comments, like "the only thing he had going for him was that he had a huge schlong" get heard far and wide and repeated by women to other women and their male friends hear this type of talk.They also deride men for their dicks when they get mad "pencil dick" or "small dick" or any number of things.Then, those same women, get a partner who they love, and they don't care about his dick size, and they talk very differently and say that "dick size doesn't matter".But, you never hear a woman say "the only thing he had going for him was a small schlong".So, what are men supposed to think?Well, women protest mightily once they have the lover who is their best friend and they don't want them to be hurt, but the damage is done.Just as damaging as guys who talk about breast size and noses and on and on.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (8 September 2012):
 The problem has nothing to do with penises. It's that she's maintaining contact with this guy.
I suggest you ask her to stop seeing him. That's making you insecure and since she's your fiancee she should be willing to do that for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2012): Update: Hey think y'all for your answers! Just I feel like the guy she always runs to when we have get in a fight and take a little break is the same guy all the time. He's the one who changed in front of her and had alot longer penis than me. She said it was very skinny however and she says all he wants is sex from her. If this is the case than why does she always run to him? If she says they haven't have sex and he have a long but very skinny penis and all he wants is sex than why does she run to him? Do y'all think she has some attraction to him or has she lied about having sex with him? I feel as if she thinks of him when we have sex because she always goes to him. I love this girl like no other and I know she is very honest with me. She says she hangs out with because he keeps her mind off me.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 September 2012):
 what is it with men and penis size?
y'all just don't listen to us... BIGGER IS NOT BETTER.
7 inch with girth would KILL ME... bigger I would not let touch me...
I swear if I could meet a man who had no penis but had an awesome tongue and good hands and loved to cuddle and kiss me all the time I'd be in heaven.
intercourse as a way to please a woman is highly HIGHLY over rated
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (7 September 2012):
Um...most women cannot accommodate a penis 10 inches long. I'm 5'9" tall and can't accommodate one that is any longer than yours.
Here's the deal: it is about how you use what you have AND the emotional connection she has with you that makes you special and makes sex with you extraordinary for her. Women don't go around proclaiming a man as 'the best' unless they are.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (7 September 2012):
 Sex with men who have a big penis is often very painful, uncomfortable and not the most enjoyable experience for a woman. Women's vagina's are roughly 4 inches long, so any man that is longer than 4 inches is simply hitting the woman's cervix which can be painful.
You honestly have nothing to worry about, you are being paranoid for no reason. I have had sex with a guy who had a huge penis, he was rubbish in bed though - just because someone has a big penis doesnt mean he knows how to use it! I have had sex with guys with smaller penises and they have been great in bed, it all depends on technique not the size.
If your girlfriend says you are the best she's had then be happy with that, your penis is way above average in terms of size so most women would say you have a big penis - you are very lucky! There is no reason why with your size you would not be able to satisfy your girlfriend, and to be honest a 10" penis is not going to feel much different to a 7" penis - both are big, and as I said before, a woman's vagina is about 4" in length so she wont be able to tell the difference if the penis is longer tha 4".
Girth actually has the most impact (in my opinion), again a big girth can be very uncomfortable but if a guy has a reasonable girth I find that to be more pleasurable than a long, thin penis.
You have a choice now - you can either realise that girls prefer good technique over a huge penis, accept that your girlfriend is with you, loves you and enjoys sex with you - and move on. Or you can carry on obsessing over something as silly as 3 inches (when women cant feel the differene anyway), let it ruin your relationship, drive yourself mad and lose your girlfriend.
I know what I would choose, but now it i up to you to see whether you can grow up, put this behind you and realise there is more to life than a massive d**k.
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reader, Yos +, writes (7 September 2012):
'This is driving me mad!"
You are driving yourself mad. Only you can do something about this... which is to stop thinking about it. You can't change the past.
What you can do is change how you think now.
You believe that she's had a 10 incher. No. You're imagining that. It didn't happen.
So you asked her a really dumb question: and she answered that yes there were a couple in the past that were bigger.
Well here's what you also believe: bigger is better.
The reality is: bigger is not better. Bigger is NOT better. You need to start believing that, because it'll help you, and because it's true.
She says you're the best she's ever had. That's great. Believe that.
If you don't stop thinking about this you'll drive yourself fully crazy, and drive her away. Fix your thoughts: you are the best she's ever had, bigger is not better, and 10 inches is a number you are imagining, it's not real.
Good luck.
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