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anonymous
writes: I'm in a bind. I was dating this girl all fall and out of nowhere things started to slow down. She says she still has feelings but we haven't been out in about 3 weeks. I will get an occasional email or text message. I reply and get my hopes up that something positive will happen. I try to get a date lined up but I always get an excuse. I don't know what to do here. Should I just stop contacting her and show her that I am not going to stand by and look like a waiting fool? She knows where I am if she wants to talk. Or should I call and tell her that this is aggravating? We've never argued before and I just think by approaching her about this will ultimately turn bad. What's the right move, call or let her call me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2005): i'm having the exact same problem with my boyfriend...we still communicate etc but every time i try to arrange something hes 'ill' or 'busy' etc. From an outsiders veiw point i would tell you to ring her up...does she have a problem...does she still want to be with you etc... but as im on the same end as you..its hard because you don't want to seem possesive, pathetic etc... I hope all goes well for you love,
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reader, beenthere +, writes (12 December 2005):
she's still contacting you so when she texts you, call her and ask if there's something wrong. tell her you need to know if she's still interested
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