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writes:So I fell in like with a girl in march, 4 months ago. She didnt return the feelings till somewhere in june. Then summer vacation started, and she left june 25th for a 50 day weekend.Things were fine between us at first, oh i miss you, love you and all that. However, lately, somewhere around two weeks ago, things started souring. Long story short, her feelings for me have receded starting last week. She no longer tells me she misses me, or loves me. No signs of little affection either.She doesnt talk to me much, im trying to be a good conversation partner, she doesnt respond to my compliments, im trying so hard and she doesnt give a shit.She returns in 18 days, and i think that once we meet in person again, she'll be back to her old self.However, am i ready to forgive her? It was my fault partially for pushing her away but it has been absolute hell. And its completely unfair for her to insist i give my all, to fool me into thinking she loved me and in a short span of two days change her feelings.And if i forgive her, what happens the next time she acts this way?My thoughts right now are to wait it out, meet her in person once again. I wont bring this up with her but the next time she drops her interest in me so suddenly i dont think i could bear to stay with her.What is your opinion and advice on this? Will it get better? Should i forgive her? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (26 August 2010):
 Did you guys even establish you were dating or boyfriend/girlfriend? After not even a month of talking or dating that's way too early to say "I love you". You don't even really know her. Now, it sounds like she met someone else during those 50 days..if you guys didn't establish a relationship then she has a right to meet other guys. You were just a fling before she went away, sorry to tell you. Now, when she comes back and tries to be all over you again, push her away. She's just using you, there's nothing there my dear. Move on from her, she's not worth your time.
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