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Texting Dilemma: am I thinking too much?

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Question - (27 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *teffyy writes:

I need input on a Texting Dilemma I have. Long story short, i met a guy, and right off the bat he was negative. The minute we met, he says "your dressed slutty". I looked awesome, and he was being a hater.

His buddy was being more gentleman like then he was, my date didnt even ask me if i needed a drink once. On top of that he was complimenting my best friend more then I. :/ i was on my best behavior not letting my emotions get the best of me.

The next morning, i just realized he was very critical of everything i was doing, and testing me. I made him sleep on the couch, and then he brought up my best friend again, saying how pretty she was.

I had enough, by that night i text him simply asking, "so clearly your not interested". his response was, " i dont want a girlfriend, if thats what your wanting".

I got so aggrivated, i said delete mynumber, and he replys "what the FUCK' i deleted his number, and i havent heard from him?

so what should i assume, i just need advice, because im thinking about this to much?? help

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2010):

He was after a quick one, and like an intelligent lady you didn't give in. Good for you. You don't need a weirdo like that in your life.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010):

HA! fuck him, you can do better, he wants a fuck buddy that has no standards. You have standards! Find some better guy, delete him number, you have every right to. Just a date gone wrong is all he is. If he asks why, just tell him the truth, and tell him to piss off. :)

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