They're on a break, I'm really taken by her, but I'm worried he'll say "no more other people"!

A male age 41-50, *motionalMasochist29 writes:

I am a 29 tear old male, who's been pretty damaged by love. yet, somehow remain consistently open to the prospect. i work 3rd shift 6 nights a week which makes meeting women difficult on top of that most realize off the bat that ill almost never be home with them at night. I've recently started seeing a slightly younger woman (23) her boyfriend recently initiated a break he is not allowed to sleep with anyone else but she is as long as its protected. her sex drive puts his to shame once or twice a day versus once or twice a month (they still have sex). me and her have started going out and hanging a couple months ago and having sex for a couple of weeks. he does a lot of things she doesn't like such as soft drugs and some insensitivity. i never comment either way on this subject (he is kinda the boyfriend) my problem is the more we progress the more i care for her and want to date her myself with no other partners involved. also i am always thinking of her she is the most incredible woman i've ever met and i am jealous of him since he has the power to pretty much say "no more other people" and i dont know what to do

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