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writes:There's this girl I have a yoga class who I think likes me. After class, there is definitely a tension between us, but I think she expects me to make the first move. I'm not really sure what to do, I'm flattered that she likes me, and she has a really positive outlook on life, but I'm not really sure what to do or say next. I feel like she is losing interest because I'm not saying anything. I'm also not totally sure how interested I am in her, though definitely am interested to some degree. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (16 March 2008):
 Stage fright huh? Fear of her rejection. Thats OK - you're only human. Then plan what you want to say in advance. And plan what you do if you do get rejected. An approach plan and an exit plan. Good luck. Richard.
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reader, Stroller +, writes (16 March 2008):
 Stop being such a wimp!! Next time you talk to her after class just say "hey! let's get some coffee!", or "you wanna have lunch tomorrow?"
Unless you've got the front to do something about it then nothing's going to come of this "tension", and of course she'll lose interest if she doesn't think you're alpha enough to actually (gosh!) *ask her out!*
Once you've been on one date or two, that's the time to decide how interested you are in her. You're not a player for having coffee with a girl & then deciding she's not your type, but you're an asshole if you lead her on, having discovered she has feelings for you.
Having said all that: yoga class! great place to pick up chicks! I think should start exercising,
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