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My married lover has cancer and I want to be with him

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Question - (11 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, *enny67 writes:

Im in a unhappy marriage and i have 3 children.I met a man on the internet and we fell in love, he is married too and although he says he loves his wife he does love me just as much and i believe him.We have known each other for a year and we have often talked about leaving our spouses and living together, i know its wrong but i cant help it, im totally in love with him.Now here is the bombshell...my lover has just been diagnosed with mouth cancer, and he needs an operation to have the ulcer from under his tongue removed and then radiotherapy. I am in bits, i cant stop crying and yet i know his wife is probably supporting him but i feel so useless because i live a bit of a distance away and cant be with him.He told me that he needs me at this time and i am worried that im going to lose him, im feeling depressed, what can i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009):

Hi

If you want to give some support please be careful not to make the mistake of blurting the truth out, there is a time and place and now probably is a very bad time.

But what you could do for him...mouth cancer and complimentary medicine...

Look at GREEN TEA for mouth cancer.

And MANUKA HONEY for mouth cancer, apparently certain hospitals are trying the honey for this...do your home work.

My partner got rid of MRSA using this honey it was a miracle worker and totaly healed his wounds when the doctors had given up and is soposed to be especially good for mouth cancer.

Good luck! this is a good way to support him and helps ALL OF YOU through this journey.

via con dios.

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