There was no cheating in our relationship. We had problems just like any other couple has. I was with him for a year. Why is he so afraid of me?

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. When I see him, he act like he's holding something back that he trully wants to say to me. When I say him again, I approached him and we had a good conversation. I told him that I still had feelings for him, he said that he still had feelings for me and he missed me. I say him in bible study and he stared at me the whole time he was there. After it was over, he winked his eye and we both left. Later on that night, my phone rung and I didn't answer because I felt like what ever he had to say, he could have said it when he saw me earlier. There was no cheating in our relationship. We had problems just like any other couple has. I was with him for a year. Why is he so afraid of me? Why is he so afraid to express his feelings? If a man is not interested anymore with his ex they don't keep coming up to you everytime you look around and they don't continue to stare at you every time they see you. This is what he wanted. What is his problem? Do I need to talk to him again. What was his purpose of calling me because he usually don't call me. Should I have answered the phone to listen to him? Is this a sign that he don't want me ever again, or is he just trying to get over me or does he want me back, but don't know how to tell me?

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