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There is not any construction work going on that I know of like he said - is that enough to think he is up to no good?

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Question - (6 November 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi--i don't know if i am being paranoid.

My b/f has his own place but usually stays at his mom's so she is not alone. He had to go pay his rent though and got there at like 9pm--he called me a few times but i was unable to pick up. I call him back at 10pm and he says he was about to eat a tv dinner..we talked for like 15 minutes and then i said i was going to go. He calls me on his way home at around midnight. He says he was falling asleep on the couch but just decided to go home..there were bumps in the car and he was like--ugh they are doing construction...BUT the thing is--he always goes the same way to his house from his apartment--i dont think there is another way--but when i am in the car--there is no construction. Even on the phone when it happened--i said where is the contruction and he just says i dunno, i havent been down this street in awhile.

I brought it up casually today by talking about the contruction near me and then asked if they are still doing construction on that block and he just says i dunno, i dont really go on that block.. Do i try to get more info out of him? Does this sound suspicious to you? That there is no construction when i am in the car and he goes the SAME way but that night there was..should i think he might had been somewhere else he shouldnt have been...??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006):

You should trust your fella until you have more proof that he is being unloyal.Take his word for it,if he says he is going to his mums then agree but if you dont believe him or trust him then there is no point in this relationship and you should consider mabe going your seperate ways before things get serious.

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