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writes: I met this guy 5 months ago and everything was great he told me he loved me after the 3rd day of knowing me . I thought that was scary but i was lonely and decided to start a relationship with him. He seemed so perfect always treating me to nice things and taking me and my baby out. He told me after 3months he was gay and dresses in womans clothing but loves me and doesn't want any1 else. He has moved in and dresses up all the time whenever we have sex. I have told him i am uncomfortable. What should i do? I am scared of the man?
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (6 November 2006):
 Well i don't think he is gay. He may be a crossdresser, or bi, but if you can't handle it then breakup it's only been 3 months... He obviously has emotional issues since he exclaimed love after a short time and has already moved in? Why did you let that happen? Just say it's not working out, women clothing doesn't turn you on, and thats that.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (6 November 2006):
 I don't know why you are scared I think It is an strange fantady maybe you can tell him you want to practise a new one as you're tired of this one and that it doesn'r turn you on anymore if he gets violent then yeah you should be scared and try to move him out arguing different reasons as that thing are going to fast you're a young girl wih a son and u do not want same mistakes as whn in previos relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2006): Why would you have him move in if he made you uneasy? Why?
He isn't gay as he has sex with you; he has a fetish.
If that is the "extent" of his issues/problems...is it all bad?
Does he want to provide for you and your baby? Does he respect and love you?
You know; don't let anyone into your home if there isn't a marriage ring on your finger.
Stop settling.
You will get the love and respect once you yourself can have it for yourself.
He doesn't love you and had no way of knowing he did as he didn't even know or understand you on day 3...give me a break...no one does.
Love takes time, sharing, trusting..
You have no trust for this man or in him and therefore what respect do you have if you are scared of him?
Kick his arse out the door.
Get wise. Get strong. Love yourself.
Best of wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2006): I think you should be scared!I should give more advise than BREAK UP WITH HIM BUT I WON'T!!!!
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