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writes: I have been with my fiance for more than five years now... and it is good, but there is a lack of passion. I don't enjoy sex with him anymore, and we rarely kiss which I don't like either. What is going on?? Does this mean that we are not right for each other?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (1 March 2006):
 It does not mean that you are catagorically not right for each other, what it does mean is that you have settled into the relationship and aspects of it have changed and may be concieved as being boring or stale.
Kissing passionatly is something long term couples rarely do, french kissing is something you do a lot of when in the real throws of a new relaionship but tails off when you have been a couple for some time, its nothing to worry about and if you want to re-kindle the passion then snog the face off him, very least will be his surprise then he may have a surprise for you!!
Lots of ways to make bedroom fun, get some books, dvd`s etc and spend quality time in bed when you are not wanting to sleep, there is nothing better than a sunday afternoon session in the bedroom, go for it if you can be bothered if not then say good bye and walk away.
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reader, GLforever +, writes (1 March 2006):
 Unfortunately, the natures of relationships change with time. The sexual "passion" that existed at the beginning often fades. Hopefully, there are other things (common interests) over which you can both share a different form of passion.It is also possible that the passion you once had could return. Making the passion return will likely be easier if you and your fiance work as a team to make it happen.Sexual passion - as wonderful as it is - is not an absolute requirement for a successful long-term relationship. Trust, on the other hand, is mandatory if you and he are to succeed in the long term.
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