A
male
age
30-35,
*saac mccrorie
writes:I am 16 years old and I am leaving school to go to college, there is a girl that I really fancy and I thought she fancied me too but a couple weeks into the summer holiday she got a boyfriend.When we were both at school we were very close, we went to the prom together and we spent so much time in school together that people actually thought we were a couple. I have never been very good at showing my emotions and worry that this possibly gave her the wrong signals, also we started to drift apart slightly when she had a go at me because I was leaving to go to college when she wanted me to stay with her at our school to do 6th form, I am again worried that this also gave her the wrong signals.Prom was 4 days ago and all I've done is thought of what to do but I have no idea and I feel like if I don't do anything soon then it will be too late because we are losing touchIf you have any suggestions they would be greatly appreciated thanks Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, LauraE +, writes (9 July 2007):
Not any suggestions that you want to hear. Maybe you are right that you should have made your feelings clearer, but that is past now because she has another boyfriend. If she did fancy you, she has changed her mind. I know you don’t want to hear that, but it is how things are. It is really frustrating to suspect that if we had behaved differently, things would be how we wanted them to be. If only we could turn the clock back! You just have to accept that she has gone. Being at a different place for 6th form will help. This awful feeling will lessen, really. Next time, you will do better.
A
male
reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 If she has a boyfriend, I suppose you should not think of her as a girlfriend anymore. A good friend, maybe.
...............................
|
