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30-35,
anonymous
writes:HI me and this girl have been best friends for ages and afew yrs ago i developed feeling for her but i wanted to make sure it wasn't just a crush as i didn't want to hurt her. I've also ben told by afew of out best friends that she loves me but doesn't know how to go about it. We have always been really really close and recently we have been getting alot closer if you can get any closer and be just friends lol. Anyway we were watching a film the other night and i put my arm round her and she cuddled up to me and when she got up to go the way she kissed me told me something, she normally kisses me when she goes nand i do to her as well. I just really wanted to grab her and pull her back on to the sofa and never let go. We have virtually cuddled before like someone would with their bf or gf but nothing has happened we've just sat their and carried on what we were originally doing. I can really see this going somewhere but i don't know hw to tell her or make the next move. What do you think i should do? Should i just pull her back next time she gets up to go home or should i just come out of the blue with it or what? I go round hers alot and spend alot of nights there as well as i don't really get on with my mum.Her parents don't mind as they know what i've been through and have always been there for me. I think its obvious to everyone that theres something between us i just wish it would happen!
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reader, xAngeliquex +, writes (29 July 2007):
 Well you know nothing is going to happen unless one of you makes it happen; just a case of which one of you out of the two it's going to be. Aww it seems that there is obvious mutual feelings going on =] I would just say just come out with it while you're having an "intimate moment" but I know it ent as easy as that..
I was once in yur position..I had feelings for a guy who flirted with me alot and we got so close but nothing ever came of it as we were both so shy to say anything. A year on, when I was drunk & he had a girlfriend, I confessed everything & he was saying "Why didn't you tell me sooner; something cudda happened." He was genuinely really upset & I was beating myself up about it.
It's obvious she isn't going to say anything so you'll have to bring it up..Maybe joke about it; see how she reacts. I doubt you'd wanna end up in my situation; regretting the fact I didn't say anything. But you know it's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do!
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reader, quarky +, writes (29 July 2007):
 Seems to me like you're both waiting for each other to make the move! From what you say, it looks like she wants to take the relationship further too. She seems to have given you an idea of how she feels - maybe she's just waiting for you to show/tell her how you feel...I reckon you should go for broke and tell her/pull her back - good luck dude.
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