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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well I met this guy through one of my friends in London, it was her cousin. when I was about 16. He was sooo cute looking ... I just knew he was the one. We were both very shy so we didn't verbally talk to each other as in face to face or phone we used to just chat online. It wasn't until I moved to Manchester, when we both admitted we fancied each other, it was a relief at last, and then our relationship grew and grew he kept saying how much he loved me, how beautiful I was, he kept putting himself down over me... He was so caring and loving... But then he starting saying how things wouldn't work out as out as out parents didn't approve or knew we were Going out. But he still kept talking to me acting all love dovey ... Texting me.. Babe this babe that ... We used to talk to each till 5-6 in the morning and still he said we should just be friends.... Yet still he kept telling me to come online. I started to get really annoyed but I didn't wanted to show my anger as much cos I really loved him and didn't want to let him go. I'm not blowing my own trumpet at all... And believe me I'm not.. but I am very attractive ... Skinny/slim... Long brown hair big brown eyes. he always complemented me saying he wasn't good enough for me but I just ignored him. He used to come on web cam... And kiss the screen and everything. We just finished our gcse's and I was planning to come to London to stay with my Aunty and see him but he said he was going to America with family and I knew he weren't lying cos my mum knows his family very well. Then he said he werent going to go just for me but his dad already booked it! I absoloutely love him so much I can't live without him ....I'm constantly thinking about him all the Time. Then My mum saw a text he sent me on my phone... I panicked like hell... She was Like let me ring him and tell him what for... So she did and then he texted me later saying we should just stop talking and I agreed . I just know he loves me ... But has spoken to me in 4 months and then a few days ago I added him on facebook he accepted and said we should be friends and nothing more..... And that he was in love with another girl that he can't be with and he doesn't want to get into more trouble as he is already in . I know for about 99.9% he doesn't have a girlfriend and I think he still loves me but maybe thinks I'm too good for him which he has already said.... I want to get married to him when I'm older. You don't understand I love him so much he even distracts my studies. do you think he still loves me? I'm sorry but I'm a descent pretty girl and we've know each other since we were 11-12 years of age what's wrong with him? .......please I need ad much advice I cud get thanx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 October 2009):
If he thinks that you're too good, he has serious confidence issues that could damage any relationship you have with him and will ultimately drive you away from him. Focus on your studying. That is your future, not this guy. If he really loved you that much, he'd be with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): All is normal except for one part, distracting your studies. One day you will discover that the potential for feelings to change at your age is very hight for both of you. If it works in the future or not, ignoring your studies will be THE ONE thing you will regret.
I know how hard it is, but try your best. Think of it that way, Be the best girl you can. Pursuing your career will change your personality and will make you look at him differnetly, if not now,you will in the future. Just don't destroy what you have.
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