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writes:this is kind of stuiped but my bestfriend is ugly and kids call her the ugly duckling but really i think she pretty but other kids dont see it. how do i make her more pretty like i just want them to see what see. And people ask me why is it that im so pretty hanging out with someone so ugly and she feels that way to . what should i do to help them see that she is beautiful thank u foq ur help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): I can think of some very famous women, famed for their beauty as much as anything else, who were bullied at school for being 'ugly'. If shes saying that she doesnt know why you hang out with her because of the way she looks, then shes buying their opinions, which is a shame. By all means help her to maximise her good points by having make up sessions and doing her hair for her but dont waste your time answering to the bullies taunts. Honestly, they really arent worth the energy. Just be a good friend to her and wait until shes older, who knows what she might turn into or make of her life. My sister knew the sweetest girl at school, who was bullied very badly by the other gilrs because they didnt think she was as pretty as they were. And she couldnt afford the latest designer clothes ect. They made her life miserable but my sister was her friend. They had an unexpected reunion a few years ago. My sister was in labour with her second child at our local hospital. When the midwife appeared to delivery the baby, it was my sisters old schoolfriend!! I often wonder how her school bullies react when they find her delivering their babies! We cant know how things will turn out in life, so its best to be good to those we meet along the way. Be a true friend to your pal and take no notice of the bullies x
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reader, kenny  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 We all see different things in people, for instance some guy that you think is totally hot, someome else might say he is ugly, beauty is in eye of the beholder. Don't stop being friends with this girl because of what other's think, i reckon they are being petty to be honest. Have you ever thought that they do see that she is pretty and that they feel jealous and somewhat threatened by her looks, which is why they are excluding her. Don't go along with what they think, and its not your job to convince them that she is beautiful, im sure they can well see that for themselves.
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