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writes: Im 15 and in an LDR, 2 year age difference.We've spoken of sex, of course and if we see each other it certainly wont happen asap.But thats beside the point. To us sex isnt sex we literally think of it as part of Love. And i cant help it but when i think about him and kissing him and all that stuff. Everytime i think slowly going into sex. I dont know if it is hormones or what. I like the thought but at the same time i hate it because it makes me feel like a horn dog. I dont get horny that easy though too. I know i dont intentionally either.Do you Aunts know why i continue to do this?I really do wish i could answer my own question.Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy question is going into further detail now so you know eveything that is going on.
Oh no i know. "school school school" I want to go to college and have some exprience there.Im not going for a masters or anything. I wana go for ME.Plus ill get paid for it too.
My boyfriend even thinks about kids, we've spoken about that too lol. I want a boy he wants a girl. haha funny how that works out huh.
He's got a job, getting diploma this year and working on a liscense.Woo!
I know how much it takes to raise a baby - almost. I have 3 younger siblings that i take care of on a daily basis aging 1 - 9 (hint:my LDR boyfriend is like my vacation)
I assume he doesnt really know how much responsibity it is cause he's the baby of his sister and brother but has nephews and nieces.
So you know - btw i didnt bring this up not once - he's talked about marrage. It doesnt bother me, but its like...I understand how well we kno each other and have loved each other for a very long time and dont get me wrong ive thought of it but i cant actually talk about it yet. y'know?
I know its young love. 15 and 17 but i truely think it was ment to be.
I dont want to turn 18 and jump right into babies and marrage and wanting college at the same time. Niether does he but thats how it makes me feel too. I want it sooooo badly but i dont.
Ive even said i wanted to wait for sex, baby and everything else. But it's like everytime i think about it i only want it more. I feel like i cant stop but i know i can. i dont know how.
I dont want to make a huge mistake just because i felt i needed it at that point in time. Im scared that i will.
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reader, That Fragile Capricorn  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 Well, with the baby situation, i strooooongly suggest not to persue tha desire. that wish may be coming from a longing of wanting to become closer with your boyfriend, to make it permanent, to create someething of your own. but trust me, you do not need that kind of repsonsibility right now. what you should focus on is, and i know this you've heard this a million times, is school. this is a time in your life to be out with friends and your boyfriend when he's around and having fun. when you have the responsibility of being pregnant and having a baby, you don't have time to do anything, everythig becomes stressfull, and all you have time to do is take cre of the baby and struggle in school. trust me, you'll have time in the future to have a family, and raise your kids wth all the attention they deserve. as of now, just have fun while you can :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answer.This is a long distance relationship so of course it would wait and even longer when it isnt long distance.
Ive known him for 6 years, dating almost 6 months, so i completely trust him and ive not ever been mad at him.We know each other to the core and gone through think and thin together.
Ive never been so in love with some one.When i met him 6 years ago, i had to be his.He felt the same way back then too.
Like i said, we've spoken about sex.Im not absolutely positive.He asks everytime the subject comes up.And ill tell him 'i think i am' but iwont know til the time comes.
Thank you so much.
Then is it my hormones if i reeeally want a baby too?
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reader, That Fragile Capricorn +, writes (3 January 2011):
YOU'RE A TEENAGER! IT'S NATURAL! :)you're hormones are raaaaging right now, so of course it's natural to be feeling this way. A lot of you peers are going through the same thing, and i'm sure you're boyfriend is too. what makes a difference is if you act on it or not. depending on how long you've been dating, and if you TRUELY and HONESTLY think he's is the one you want to give such a precious thing away to, then no one can stop you. but, of course, USE PROTECTION! i can not stress that enough!!! when you start to become intimate with you're boyfriend, before actually having intercourse, if it feels wrong (wrong place, wrong time, wrong person, wrong feelings), if it doesnt feel RIGHT, like this is how it's suppose to be, then don't do it. you'll know when it's the right time, and the right person. but you are not a horn dog, you are a normal teenage girl :) you could also wait till marriage, when you know this is the person you'll be with forever and you could share you're innocence for the first time can make it even more magical! i, personally, only can imagine myself sharing that with one person and one person only. but only you can make your own decisions. good luck sweetie!
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