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writes:I recently found out my best friend had a crush on me about 3 months ago. Now I have a crush on her but from everything I can tell I think it's too late. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2005): You should probably speak to her. She will never know how you feel unless you tell her. Who knows? Things may actually work out for the two of you. But at the same time you also need to consider whether or not you are willing to risk a good friendship over a little crush.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (11 November 2005):
 Talk to her. One of the biggest problems in these situations is the lack of communication. Had she told you of the crush in the first place, you would have been able to examine your feelings for her and possibly started a relationship. Now it is your turn, waiting for clues to tell you if she is still interested will not get you anywhere. Ask her flat out if she is interested or not, that way you will both know how to proceed.
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reader, Juliette +, writes (11 November 2005):
 Reverse the situation. Assuming you have had a previous crush on someone that you did not get, do you get over the crush or just learn to be realistic to reduce the pain?Could you just be feeling like responding because she has become unattainable and you were liking the feeling of being flattered, or at least in the short term? I don't think you go off people so suddenly. Just a spark of interest now could relight her interest, or be even more up front and tell her how you feel.
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reader, xxxSXCxxxAMYxxx +, writes (11 November 2005):
helllo??? come on if she likes you and you like her!!!! go for it!!!! i would, if i was in your shoes!!! what have you got to lose??? go on make me proud!!!! for me =) xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2005): Find another girl. Seriously, I hope you have sat her down and talked to her about your current feelings. Ask her why she stopped being interested in you just when you were finally getting smart enough to realize that you were missing out on a good thing- her! Flattery may resurect this relationship, but don't go holding your breath.
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