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writes:this is gonna sound dead weird but ive split from my ex girlfriend 4 weeks ago and normally i get over relationships in no time but with this one we agreed to be good friends and went out today together with a few others - durin this time she harped on about some guy all the time and now im home although the thought of her with another guy doesn't bother me the thought of her is bringing me to tears and i dont get it
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): I just had the same thing happen to me...We never officially broke up...But we stopped all contact, text, phone calls, anything other than hi...how are u...and this has been going on for weeks....Although nothing bad happened.
I saw him today talking to another woman and I about turned into a statue of fire I was so mad. I know that I am not ready for that. So I just have to back away until I it doesn't sting so bad. I suggest for your own sanity and emotional well being you give yourself some time to reevaluate where you want to be. Do you want to be her "friend" or do you think you want to hammer out that kinks and get back together with her. It could be a natural reaction or you could want her back.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): You're bound to still have some form of feelings left over, so it's normal to feel upset by the idea of your ex involved with someone that isn't you.
In regard to the first comment, it's not easy to become girlfriend/boyfriend then to friend. It's hard to make that adjustment so quickly so you're better off with no communcation with her for sometime until you're ready to talk to her again and start a friendship with her.
All the best
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (29 July 2009):
 your not over her is there anyway u can get her back?it takes time to get over someone and seeing them all the time and being friends sometimes isnt the answer to get over that person maybe you should stay away for a while and when your able to get over it you can be friends
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 July 2009):
Sounds like you are not ready to be her friend just yet.
Since you had enough of a connection with this girl to stay friends with her so she obviously got under your skin.
Take a bit of time not seeing her as much and go out with your mates. Flirt with a girl in a club and get drunk and have a great time. It will help.
Good Luck!! xx
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