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writes:i have been with my guy for about six years now and we get along fantasticly. the sex is out of this world but he has not mentioned anything about ever getting married. this would be a second marraige for both of us. maybe you can offer some advice.we are not babies so to speak, we are both in the prime years of life. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi there, I want to say thanks to the three people that have offered their advice. I'm really going to give it a shot and talk to him when I feel the time is right. Hopefully really soon.I will keep you posted of what happens. Wish me luck.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Why not drop a hint and tell him you wish he could be with you always? You could even suggest you move in together or buy some place together, see what reaction you get from him.
Maybe he thinks you're quite happy with things the way you are and is terrified to mention moving in or marriage in case it scares you off. You won't know unless you ask him. Pick your time when he's relaxed and put it to him, don't make a big thing of it, just mention it in conversation and see what he says. Keep us posted okay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): Maybe he is afraid of a second marriage failing? He may see your current relationship as perfect and dose not want to risk ruining it like his first marriage. Talk to him about how you feel about him and that both of you are different from the first time you each married. Try to understand his point of view and possibly seek couples counseling to get through this together. Good luck.
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