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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for just over 3 years. We had a very rocky relationship to shart with and we have both cheated in the past. That's all over now but recently I discovered he is getting rude text messages on his from from a gay friend of his. When I confronted him, he went mad and told me it wasn't his fault his mate was texting him these messages. But he hasn't told him he's straight or made any effort to stop it and its making me paranoid. Is he gay?!
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reader, blue21jen0879 +, writes (14 February 2006):
He sure sounds bisexual. I found out my husband was bisexual and he got very angry w/ me and denied it even though I had much more proof than you do now. The rate for DL guys....Down Low bisexual guys in secret have grown in huge numbers and it's scarey. I have no idea what I'm going to do in my situation. I'm married and have kids. My advice....Find out for sure and if he is...run because it's no fun dealing with that and it's heartbreaking
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2006): my bf has a gay friend and sometimes that gay frined will send him dirty or stupid messags, only as a joke because he knows my b/f hates it, when your bf starts to go to gay clubs and starts to fuss with his hair and clothes then id be worried.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2006): When you say rude do you mean dirty?Has he sent any messages back? If so what are they like?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2006): I know you're 'worried', but don't ask strangers whether he is gay or not. Ask him yourself. If he gets mad, then that's his problem. You have the right to know.
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