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41-50,
*assywit
writes:Just curious..married guy at work,I'm married also, we have been flirting for quite some time, it has moved to intense sexual banter. Recently I had, had it.I wanted to know what was he looking for.He even went on to state that he is responsive vs passive.I even asked him if he wanted to do anything, he responed with what ya want to do, in which I asked him what do you feel up to. He's comment back was that I always answer a question with a question. However, when I asked him if he had a motive, he stated that he did not have a pre-exsisting one and that even though he knew that it would be out of this world the risks outweight the rewards. All the signs were there, I felt like I had nailed him, then he pulls a 360' on me all in the same conversation. What is up with this guy? Is he still trying to feel me out? Was he looking for me to tell him I am not a risk so that it may move forward?
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Hi,
Is this a joke post? It just sounds like a teenager pretending to be an adult. I hope it is otherwise I pity your husband as you are running around playing high school flirty girl. It is all rather pathetic, and you are getting your just deserts playing the game with a kindren soul.
If you are for real, get a divorce ,at least try and do right by your husband, he probably doesnt know what you are really like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): At the risk of sounding dull (and not meaning to be horrible) i would be more worrried about the state of my own marraige and why I feel the need to flirt with other guys.. is your husband not showing you enough attention, are you bored?? well the latter is obvious i guess.
This guy is sounds a bit creepy, yes hes got the wife and kids at home in a little bubble but i think he gets his kicks from flirting with others, i doubt your the only one too.. god forbid if he was in a situation where it was handed to him on a plate so to speak he would freak out, collapse in a heap and then run home to wifey.
He is dangerous i really would keep him at arms length and be purely professional around him.
Please don't let this guy get to you, they never leave their wives you will always be there for just one thing. You are better than that - please concentrate on your own marraige and try to spice it up some. If its not working with your hubby then maybe you should think about splitting up but don't be this guys play thing, i think he is all flirt and no action i would avoid him like the plague.
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