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writes: My bf of 3 years started downloading porn alot recently. I never was bothered by it until sex became less and less and the only time i get it is after he's looked at it. Any advice? I'm ready to walk!
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reader, jack23 +, writes (10 October 2006):
 I would definently say there is no need to run! When you being a relationship everything is new and exciting, but after time when you get stuck in the same routine things become predictable and boring. The main thing is that you are aware of it and that hes not just running off with someone else but is trying to find ways of getting around it and staying with you.
When you really think about it how adventurours is your sex life? Can you predict when he comes home what is going to happen and how the sex will be? I would think the answer is most likely a yes, this is a common situation in alot of relationships.
Maybe it would be worth some experimentation, such as new surroundings and locations, different possitions, role play and such. But I would say you two best ways to discover what he wants it to A, talk to him and see if he is willing to give you any information, but try not to push him into telling you as some guys get embarrassed. B, find out what porn he is watching and watch some yourself, see what it is that he finds interesting and a turn on. But ofcourse dont put yourself into a position that you feel uncomfortable with, just do what you are happy to do for him.
Hope this is of some help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): Hi there you say its only recently that your man has been watching porn was the sex life good before all this started and has anything changed for him such as a new job or extra stress. Many men watch porn for stress relief as then they dont have to get emotionally envolved with the people they are watching. Other men are just curious and find it harmless fun. Do chat to him and and see why he watches it, if its something you can stomach try watching it together to see what stimulates him, maybe he feels the need to pep up your sex life and he cant fully open up to you about it. But dont be fored into having sex with him because he wants it, making love is wonderful but sex as a chore can be degrading best of luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): Dont take the BAD advice above...some men will use this even if their happy with their sex life...if he's not satisfied with you alone I would run...
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