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The new guy shares my interests, but I'm comfortable with the old guy. Who should I choose?

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Question - (11 July 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

me and my on and off live in move out boyfriend of almost four years are off again. i went on a cruise and met a great guy, and even flew back to see him as soon as i got home from vacation. im confused do i stay with the only thing i know, or see where the new guy leads too. the new guy has the same morals, intrests and future plans as me and is ready for commitment. the old one wont yet settle down and get married.

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (12 July 2007):

nologo agony auntMy advice is that you choose the new guy.

It sounds like this is what you want now.

"new guy has the same morals, intrests and future plans as me"

These things are important, very important in everyone's life.

However, it may turn out that you're only looking for novelty.

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