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writes: This will be my LAST article.Love is a difficult feeling to grasp. It's a feeling that can make you or break you. Have you ever seen romantic films that always have happy endings? Well the love that you feel inside is not like in the movies. They are not always realistic and you never know if you or your spouse really have feelings for each other. It's hard enough for people to find the ones that they can love and cherish and there are relationships right now that have negative vibes all around you. For example, abusive relationships are one of the downfalls of many relationships today because one person is insecure about themselves for whatever reason. Keep in mind, cheating, in my opinion, is much like abusing your spouse mentally, somewhat physically, and emotionally. Everyone of us needs to talk to each other and try to find the reasons why we love or hate each other and we must be truthful to ourselves and with each other no matter how hard the truth is. I need to be truthful about myself and with other people in order for me to be with everyone, but in a world where truth can also become twisted, even in relationships, it will be hard for me and for you. It is also important that you must not take love for granted because it will haunt you and you will feel regret and sorrow that could possibly make you do thingsthat you will regret it for the rest of your life. Sadly, there have been people who have loved someone and have died because of it. Love the one you're with. Love your spousewith all your heart and soul. You only have one life to live and if you say that you hate someone, you may never know if that person could be alive or dead and that willhurt you wherever you go. Embrace your lovers as best as you know how and try to be there for each other no matter what. If you are single, love your family and your friendsbecause they will be with you until the end of our lives. Love each other always and never forget them.
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reader, Curiousbynature  +, writes (22 July 2008):
I think love is hard work. You cant rely on love to get your through every aspect of life. Love cant pull you out of a lake when you are drowning. But what love can do, is make you try like crazy to save the person who you love. Love is also sacrifice. The number one reason for divorce, I think, is people are lazy and give up at the first sign of agony. I don't quite understand why a relationship, that is highly packed with love, can go astray after one little fight. Fights and spats are what make you or break you. If you can spat with your lover and get over it, that's huge. If you can put away your punching bags and simply talk about the issues and truthfully accept them, that will lead you to a great loving relationship. I love my boyfriend, sometimes he makes me crazy, but I love him. When he makes me mad or makes me worry, I don't love him as much, but where does "ALL" that love I had for him discipate while I'm angry? That is one thing I will never understand. The key in love is understanding the other person and letting them fully understand you. No lying, no faking, just flat out be yourself and true. Actually, I always fall more in love with my boyfriend after a fight, because I know if we have made it through what we have already, we can do it all! Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): Beauty lay upon your lips, with magic words give your kiss!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008): Ohhhh,Lonewolf,I love that article.It is very true and
right.There was a time,several times,I thought I was in love,but every time,I eventually found out it was infatuation.But I definitely agree with you about everything.You should definitely always love your family.
They're the only people that will always care about you and
be there for you,when everyone else is gone.P.S.:I'll miss
you!XxXxXxXxX
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