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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend has been asking me for anal sex but I am scared to try it out, not because of the pain, but because of the potential embarrassment involved. I read on here that anal sex can get quite "messy", what exactly is the mess about? I want to know the most embarrassing things possible to happen during anal sex before I try it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): the most crazy thing that happen to me when i first tried anal is a surprise came out i was pushing him out instead of relaxing n u could figure out the rest
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (17 February 2008):
My advise is to only do this if you are comfortable with him doing it. I am 35 years old and from the age of 18 had every boyfriend ask me to do it with them. I never felt comfortable so told them to go and get a cuccumber out of the fridge and to bend over. Silence. If you trust him implicitly and you want to try it then make sure there is lots of foreplay and he uses lots of lube and is very gentle and allows your body time to adjust before proceeding further. The mess would be on withdrawal as bits of poop can come out of you. I have heard people taking laxettes prior to anal to prevent the mess from occuring. It is up to you but only do it if YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE AND IT IS DONE WITH YOUR COMFORT IN MIND.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): Well, anal sex involves his penis going into your anus, and we all know what comes out of there lol.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (17 February 2008):
 Well.
WElly welly well well well.
i'll just put this blunty and not sugar coat it.
you're either gonna love it. or hate it.
mess wise, well make sure he uses a rubber cause its gonna get messy.. and well i ain't painting that picture for you.
douche is often used to clean the passage
and lube. for the love of god and all that is holy woman buy lube like the worlds gonna end.
and finally ready this.
http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/howto/buttsexbeginners
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): Well if you say no, then your boyfriend should be understanding. that is if he actually cares about you. Unless his real intentions are to just use you for sex.....:(
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