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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a wonderful girlfriend, and I am ready to be intimate with her, but I am having some difficulty. I have no problem getting an erection when we are close, but when I am want to get with her, the moment I go to take it out/put on a condom, it falls flat. I am a virgin, but have never really had problems maintaining an erection before.I trust and care for this woman so much and really can see a future with her. I am 26, and she is really understanding and she did her best to make sure I knew she didn't care and wasen't dissapointed in me.It's hard for me to get over my anxiety and my 'failure' makes me feel even worse. I don't want to lose her and my brain starts going crazy, thinking I must not actually be attracted to her or that there is something wrong with me or I will never be able to do this and have a relationship.
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