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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hello People,I'm a 17 year old guy and I think I love this other slightly younger guy who goes to a different college and says that he is completely head over heels in love with me. All seems good..Apart from the fact that he is an extremely good-looking model... I feel so out of place around him that I don't match him at all, that I'm not up to scratch. One of the thiongs that I'm just very conscious about is the fact that he is in a much better shape than me and when I say this I mean that I'm an ideal weight etc. but he is way more toned and evidently has a much better body shape than me...What should I do? How should I feel? May I also Point out that we've known eachother for about a month but we've only just met today at the park, and he was just such an amazingly brillianty sweet guy. And that I'm also going in to town with him this Saturday. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (9 April 2010):
You've only started into this relationship (e.g. actually met)... and you're worried about it?!?!
Give it time. Only that will really tell you whether he's genuine about his feelings for you... or not. He might be better looking thank you... so what! be glad that he's attracted to you and that you have someone who, it sounds like, worships the ground you walk on. Treat him right and he'll be yours forever.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (9 April 2010):
Don't under estimate or under rate yourself and over estimate or over rate him.
Love is not about your physicals. It is the chemistry and the sex appeals.
Just let yourself go and enjoy the friendship.Be free. Obviously he is attracted to something that you have.
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