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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: i'm not bisexual or lesbian, but is this feeling normal to have?sometimes when i see this lady that i know for quite sometime, i see her touching, rubbing, stroking her neck, arm, shoulders, etc. i get this feeling in my vagina. am i aroused or turn on or both? at times i do have sexual desires or desires for a lady. doesn't mean that i'm bisexual?
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reader, natalieejanex +, writes (12 February 2011):
you are obviously aroused and turned on by women but do you have emotional feelings for them? would you ever date another women? if not, then you are straight and you are just thinking more of it than you should and are aroused by what she is doing rather than her gender and who she is as a person.
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reader, Shortacid +, writes (3 July 2007):
Its normal. You are not bisexual unless you act upon it (sexually) more than once. My guess is watching this happen, you are doing the same thing to yourself in your own mind. A woman knows a woman, how and where to properly touch, caressing, and the whole aura of sexiness permeates through them. I think you were more aroused at the content of the situation as opposed to the actual lady.
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reader, Midge +, writes (3 July 2007):
Having sexual fantacies for the same sex is pretty normal, however you are of an age where you normally have an incling as to whether or not, you actually want to follow through with the same sex.
It may be that you are just very inquisitive and perhaps want to experiment a little. It doesnt mean that you are bisexual or lesbian or anything like that, it just means that you want to experiment.
Not much help, but unfortunately there are so many other woman and men in your situation and dont know what to do about it!
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