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41-50,
*lexandra1980
writes:Ok here is my situation: I am 28 and met this great guy who is 27 and I have seen him 5 times. He is really cute and just seems like an all around good person: what's the problem you ask: copy of our conversation: I was asking him what he was looking for in a relationship: I told him him I was looking for a friend and see where it will go from there. the guy: sounds good to me I dunno where it will gothe guy: dunno I will be honest I have some issues more so around commitment I guessme:like whatme:you don't believe in it or you're not good at it?the guy: ummthe guy: just been burned a lotthe guy: and I don't take it out on anyone elsethe guy: just I do not get so closethe guy: and it's hard for me to open uplast partthe guy: I have trouble communicating cause I am so introvertedWhen he says he can't open up he is not kidding, if I send him a text he answers yes, no, maybe. He says he likes me and but it feels like it's about just cuddling and playing (-sex). I know he works a very important job and when he is free we watch movies and cuddle and play. It would be nice if he would call and ask me out and do something fun. He does not call on his own, I don't need to talk him 24/7 but to know he thinks of me would be nice. I just want advice because I don't want to scare him off or handle things wrong. Is he really full of BS or what? This is a new situation for me. What should I do?
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (23 January 2009):
 I think you're doing okay so far. It's just going to take time with him. He should be asking you out though. Go a few days without contacting him, and see if he calls/texts you. If he doesn't and a week goes buy, call him and say "It's been a week since we've talked. What's going on?" I think he'll call you before then, but see what he's capable of when you're not initiating the conversation.
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