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anonymous
writes:If a guy has unprotected sex with his gf on knowing she is not on birth control. Then she gets pregnant and he tells her to have an abortion and says that if she does not she will have to sue him for money. Then he takes her to a clinic, pays for the abortion. Then he is glad she is still with him and then he wants to marry her. But still he is not ready for children, but says within a year or two. What does that mean?
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Dear Anon
why are you still with this selfish slime ball,you wont get anything for the child but, i will pay for abortion, i will pay for your wedding, what type of person would do a thing like that to you of all people, good grief, why are you still part of his life, do you think he has a screw loose, if you do marry,i hate to think what your life is really going to be like, going to the abortion clinic every few week all because he does not want children,you deserve more than this in your life he is only toying with you ,he has not intention of having children with you, and how great full you should be, what happens if you do have a child and it turns out like him,forget that,it seems that you are in love with him but love is a two way street, do not think he loves you or why would he get you to loose your baby, it makes me very sad to hear these type of things,I feel so sorry for you.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (17 October 2007):
Unless he's lying, he very money orient. A good girl would have just told him I'll give your name to my lawyer and left.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Well, this could be interpreted as a bit of a mixed up person. A one who has truly not grown up yet and doesnt fully know their minds. Too many decisions. He probably does want to get married, but the kids are definately not in the plans, yet! They need to grow up and develop and discover just what they want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): That he's not ready for kids and wants to wait a year or two, or that that's what he wants the girl to think. And if I were that girl, I would be weary of having kids with him because he obviously does not want to be responsible..saying she'd have to sue him for support for his own kid? He wasn't even being careful either while having unprotected sex? He sounds like he has no idea what he wants.
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