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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hi, about six or eight months ago i went out with honestly the guy of my dreams but like he dumped me about two months after that because he said i was jealous and OK maybe i was but he kept on flirting with this girl he asked out before me she was a really good friend of mine i talk to her about any thing and when i asked this guy out when i asked him out he didn't answer for about a month and we got really good friends and when he said yes it was like heaven!! but when it was getting really difficult to be around him just in case i would say wt i really feel like how much i like him and how annoyed i was with him for going to sit by this girl and not me i new he was annoyed at me as well and then one day he broke my heart the day before i had told my friend that i loved him.i cried so much on the bus home wich is annoying cuz i go on the same bus as him. the summer holidays started a month or two after that and i asked him out over email and he said no. so i just said to myself you have got to get over him. so i thought i did when we went back to school my best friends brother asked me out hes a little weird but i said yes and now i feel really bad because im having the same thoughts as i was before the summer holidays and the girl i used to talk to about these kind of things to has gone away moved. and now i died my hair red and started putting eye liner on like she use to do and he seems to be talking to a lot more he keeps asking me about my boyfriend and how its going i asked him why he wanted ti know and he posed and said i dunno gossip so i dont know if he actually wants to know how things are or if hes asking out of politeness i dont know if he likes me and if he does wt can i do about it because iv went out with my friends brother and dumped him so i cant really dump him again can i?? or shall i just play it cool ans forget about him even though i judge my every move on if i think he would do the same thingi really neeeeeeeed help!!!!!!please help me !!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 September 2008):
I would move on from this guy that you like. He's playing games and dumped you for a reason that sounds suspiciously like "I can get an easier ride elsewhere."
If you don't like your new boyfriend then don't go out with him but don't try and get with your ex. He sounds like the kind of guy who is wonderful and charming until a prettier girl comes along.
Don't let yourself fall so easily. You have school work to concentrate of first. Trust me, I wish I had put more effort in to school work rather than lusting after a boy. They are never worth it.
Good Luck!! xx
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