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writes: I'm going out with a this lovely guy. The first night I (18) met him (19), we kissed and stuff, but for me it was only ment to be a one night thing, a last fling of the summer before I knuckled down to study for the year. But then he took my number and we've now been seeing each other for 7 months and we've told each other we love each other and everything (he said it first). Sometimes I really think I do but I can't help feeling that often I don't, but I can't see what is the problem. He's everything I usually look for. He's really really funny, always makes me laugh. We have a great time when we go out. He's really kind and generous. I'm rarely allowed pay for a drink or anything. He treats me so well. He's a great kisser and really turns me on, though we haven't slept together yet b/c I'm a virgin and he wants to make sure I'm ready and that everything is perfect. He's so sweet!He's not wonderfully handsome but I never go for looks and he not ugly or anything. He's slightly overweight but although I'm slim now I was overweight once and would never disregard anyone b/c of thier weight. I know how horrible that is.I really hope it's not this that is bothering me. I never thought I was shallow, but why can't I love him back?
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reader, shania  +, writes (15 April 2006):
 Well,i wouldn't say 7 months was a very long time in seeing someone and probably what happened was your boyfriend said he loved you....and you felt that you had to say it back,even though you didn't mean it.He does sound like a smashing bloke but if your not in love with him then maybe later you will,give it time....love can blossom eventually,but if he isn't making you that fulfilled and it feels like you have to keep pretending then maybe you should call it a day,but give your relationship a fair chance 1st....only time will tell,remember,this guy sounds perfect but if the chemistry isn't there then its down to you whether you want more or not.Good luck.
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reader, stephanie +, writes (14 April 2006):
well sometimes the perfect person isnt right for youyou might just like him as a friend who really just should be a friend maybe this relationship could be ruined if it goes further think about what your doing and think about logical reasons why you dont fancy him maybe he isnt as good looking as you think and doesnt turn you on what ever happens work out if he really is the one for you.
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