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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have feelings for this guy but he always lets me down because he has to work or his been sick he says he has feelings for me and knows he should make more of an effort should i give him the benefit of the doubt or should i just move on because surely my self respect is worth more than that? when we are together it feels so real like we belong together but i just don’t like the fact that he lacks effort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2024): Unfortunately you are not his priority so don't make him yours.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (29 May 2024):
 If he really wanted to, he would make it happen. He doesn't like you as much as you like him.
Set him free. He will either miss you and try to win you back by putting in more effort, or he won't, in which case you can walk away and find someone better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2024): You say you are dating him. Dating means he asks you out for a meal or whatever, he turns up or picks you up and you go together, he has a meal with you and pays for the meals etc.
Or do you mean that you pester him until he eventually turns up and has sex with you? Because staying in or only visiting for a chat and or sex is not dating.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 May 2024):
 How long have you known him?
And if you are the one making all the effort, is it really worth it your time to keep trying?
Of course, he can be present and make an effort when you DO see each other, because HE gets something out of it.
I'd wish him well and move on.
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