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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Heyy everyone, im going through a really hard time, as one of my best friends and i both like this one guy, and typically he likes her! i really like him but he doesnt like me and he likes her and she likes him! she keeps tellin me about all the dates she goes on with him, and i cant help resenting her! what do i do!! Help!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): If she is your 'best' friend, then open communication should be natural and comfortable right? Did she know you liked that boy? If she didn't, then you can be the more 'sensible' person and endure it. If she did know, then you can tell her that her stories are making you uncomfortable. Remember that she may no necessarily be trying to hurt you and simply just expressing her happiness with her 'best' friend, you.
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reader, SlackersACE1  +, writes (10 March 2009):
Personally I'd just beat her up. However you should probably do the smart thing and think for just a minute. You might want to talk to your friend and this little bruddah you like about it. Before you do, ask yourself WHAT is so great about him and how much you like him. At that age, us guys are a dime a dozen and frankly not that bright. Hes probably a little too dense to realize you like him. And dont hate on your girl, keep in mind that she genuinely likes this boy too and just wants someone to share her good feelings with, and who better than her bestfriend to share them with. And if you haven't been straight with her, she might not know shes hitting you in the feel bads.
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