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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have been seeing this girl for a while and we are starting to take things a bit further, she wants me to perform oral sex which I am happy to do more than, I have never given oral before and am a little shy about what to expect down below, do girls smell, I mean not like bad but do you know have a scent etc. my mate says he girlfriend has a smell.
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reader, don't take his shit 1 +, writes (10 March 2009):
hey, when you have big feelings for someone you will be filled with a huge sexual urge of enthusiasm, you will be ready to smell and tastr your loved one.
a woman's intimate smell is sweet and fragrant.Much more so than a boy's smell of sperm. Perhaps that's why men will pay£10 to £30 per.pair of girl's pants on the internet. Think about it !
Love the sweet smell of your girl.
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female
reader, Katy. +, writes (10 March 2009):
don't expect anything amazing, lets face it, nobody looks great down there; male or female, but what gives you pleasure doesn't need to look great. I'm guessing she'l be slightly if not a fair bit nervous too, so don't mension anything when your doing it and have finnished or this could affect her confidence and make her more self concious.
As for the smell thing, i find i'm fine once i've had a quick clean in the shower but after an hour or so it tends to gradually smell, not bad but just slightly. I'm sure she'l get a bit of a wash for your first time but if not have a drink handy or even like the others have suggested some flavoured lube.
No offence to my boyfriend, but its not exactly the best experience when i perform oral on him, us women have to cope with it; so should you lot, its only fair (:
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female
reader, natasia +, writes (10 March 2009):
ps
and on the scent thing ... well, i guess it's best to try when she's just come out of the shower or something, and i'm sure there's some kind of taste to a woman, but i imagine it isn't dissimilar to the taste of a man. well, yes, i can tell you: there is a taste, and it is nice.
so don't worry.
plastic probably tastes worse ... (but i agree that you should be sensible)
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female
reader, natasia +, writes (10 March 2009):
what the ? is a dental dam????
you sound v sensible, satindesire. if i am just with one partner forever, i wouldn't expect him to use a plastic shield ... i can't imagine that. should guys also have their dicks covered up if they are having a blowjob? so then, how can one swallow????
(sorry - i am just in slight shock - have honestly never heard of this - shows how closeted i am!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): listen to satindesire, she is right on these things about the honey and stuff - thanks star.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): yes - but all women are different and smell different at different times... if you dont like smell or taste usehoney or choclate or something....
but in general its lovely. enjoy and let your partner tell you what she likes and how. Learn....and remember to breath...
Star.x.
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