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writes: Hi,I really like this guy. He is a few years older than me I don't know exactly how many. I have liked him for some time. My mother does not like me to get involved with him because he has just come out of jail for fighting, but I reassured her that he is not like that normally. I don't know him very well, I have only spoken to him once. But the other day my sister asked him for his phone number for me, but he said "come up here and get it" but I was too shy. Now he thinks I don't want it and that I was lying, but I would really like to talk to him and get to know him better!!I'm only 15 and I want to know if I should asked my sister to get his number or get it myself. Thing is I'm shy and I won't ask him and I never see him. What should I do? I think about him constantly and have liked him for some time but have never had a conversation with him.
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reader, pops +, writes (17 June 2005):
Girl: You have no business dating older men at 15 years of age. You are jail bait, in most jurisdictions. If he was in prison, he was at least 17 and is probably older. Stay away from him. If he went to prison for assault, it is because he has trouble with impulse control. He is a strong candidate for being a spouse abuser. You don't learn gentile manners in prison. Accept your mother's advice as being based on experiences. Your sister should be punished for asking him for his phone number for you. That kind of behavior is simply wrong. pops
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (15 June 2005):
 You do not know this guy very well. I understand what you are talking about when you say that he isnt like that in real life when he got out of jail. my bf is the same way. if your mom does not approve of him, do you really think that the two of you really have a future? you should respect your mothers opinion and listen to what she has to stay. think about what you are doing.if you are shy around him, i dont think he is a good choice for you. you should be able to be yourself around whoever you date. if you are shy around him and he tries to pressure you into doing something you dont want to do, there is a great chance that you will do whatever he is trying to pressure you into doing. good luck ~Robin~ aka advice gurl
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