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The girl's not interested in a boyfriend right now, so why can't I get over her?

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Question - (6 July 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2006)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

There's a girl at school (well the school I used to go to but now I've left and I'm on my gap year) and I think she's perfect for me. She's smart, she's pretty and she has a good sense of humour. Yet she always seemed embarrassed every time I spoke to her, so I stopped talking to her.

Yet I can't get over her and I always get worried whenever she starts talking to other guys even though she doesn't want a boyfriend when at high school. Will I get over her? Can anyone give me advice on how to do so?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2006):

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sorry bout before i didn't mean to reply that, i wasn't in a good mood when i posted it (something with my aprents). Its difficult now because she is with a group of friends who I hardly know or are unlikely to meet up with. Since I've left school now its become too difficult to talk to her or get the chance to talk to her.

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A female reader, hannieseds New Zealand +, writes (6 July 2006):

hannieseds agony auntIf you can't handle people's opinions then why did you even bother coming here in the first place! This girl took time out of HER LIFE to try and give you advice as best she could and you call it shit. Go on GET OUT OF HERE! We don't want people like you on this site anyway if you can't handle what other people advise you to do, when that is the reason you posted the question!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2006):

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you call that advice. my neighbours cat could have thought of better than that. I don't even know why I bother coming on this site when I here shit advice like that. Thanks for nothin

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A female reader, wannadie +, writes (6 July 2006):

When I was at high school I only got embarrassed with a guy when I fancied him.

My advice is be her mate. Have a laugh, be be a little cool,hint at other girlfriends, because believe me a girl wants somebody that somebody else wants.

When I was your age I didn't belive that old saying but it is soooooooo true. You need to make her a little jealous and it sounds like you need to make the first move. You are both a little nervous and that is understandable but I think she really likes you. Have you got a friend who is female that you can be seen with a few times? Do it ! You will be amazed at the turnaround if she thinks you are interested in someone else.

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