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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys,I have just said bye to a girl that was everything i could of wanted!She came over 5 months ago to study and has now gone home to holland! She has a boyfriend over there.We only recently really started to become the real thing the last 2 weeks she was over after having had a fling 2 months ago!I said goodbye to her last night! at which point she tells me that she is questioning wether the guys she is going back to is for her! i know that when she is there i will become a meomory, but do i forget about her, try to let her know i am the right one for her, break all contact or try to just be an option for her to come back and visit?It hurts and i miss her more than i ever have anyone else!! what should i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): Its a tough decision to make. If you don't contact her when she goes back it looks like you don't care about her and if you do straight away it might look like your desperate/clingy etc.
Send her a quick email/text asking her how was her journey and did she get home ok and see what she says back. But give it a day or two after she gets home to do this.
Let her make the first move. She is the one with the boyf at home and you can't make her mind up for her. She is the only one who can do that and know what and who she wants her self.
Best of luck & hope it all works out.
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